Today unlike our usual meet and greet with entrepreneurs, we decided to do something different. Our Jetified Personality of today is Arinzechukwu.
Arinzechukwu is an afro-igbo-anglo writer, sapiosexual, part-feminist, life and relationship speaker and social critic..
Fortunately enough, he let us into his archives of wonderful articles was he hashtagged #fictitiousreality and he decided to share one with our wonderful JBreaders.
Below is one of his writeup, read and drop ur comments.
Title: On abuse – Ms. Enenebe Eje-ọrụ.
You told me he physically abused you😞.
I was heartbroken and pained, and wondered what manner of man raises his hands on any woman, talk-less of a beautiful one😡.
I placated you with my soothing words, reassuring you that I will put the man in one corner 😡.
Then it hit me…👊
I asked you the shape of your tongue prior to the “physical abuse”🤔
You retorted that you had no understanding of what I meant by the “shape of your ire” and pried to know what it had to do with being physically abused 🤥
I subtly drove it home, rephrasing and reiterating thus, “what was the quality of the words that left your buccal cavity during your angry vituperation”😤.
You frowned and stated that it didn’t matter 👀.
I followed your lead, frowned and ushered you into the negative world of what I termed “tongue abuse”
You said you vented your anger through your words😡.
I replied that your tongue was a rudder and can easily determine the course of your relationships👫
You maintained that no matter what you had uttered during your angry moments, he had to shoulder it as a man🚶♂️
I raised an eyebrow and asked “nne, is the man made of okwute “?🤔
You threw it at me that both can’t be equated 😬
I replied that I rather you pummel me to popcorns than give me a piece of your untamed tongue 😫
You frowned 😠
I frowned 😠
You told me that you weren’t that way before😘
I replied that he prolly wasn’t that way too😘
You said you are hurt by his insensitivity towards your emotional needs😩
I replied he’s prolly hurt by your insensitivity towards his emotional needs😩
You mentioned that prior to now you only gave him a dose of his own medicine via tongue lashing 🤪
I exclaimed “hiaa”, and asked how the feeling of winning has been? Mkpọ gị ọcha akwụ 1👌
You gave me a stern look laced with obvious anger 😡
You said he shouldn’t have raised his hand on you ☹️
You said you only mistakenly touched his right and left cheeks with your palm 😳
I exclaimed in my owere dialect “ishi nnini”?😳
You retorted “You men should never raise your hands on a woman”☹️
I replied, guess your partner is a feminist and believes in equality 😏
You took a long stare at me 👀
And you said it…
You stated that I looked like one of them🤔
I smiled 🙂
You put it to me that my face actually looked like that of a woman-beater 😫
I was shocked 😳😳
At this point I saw through the eyes of the very man you called your partner, I come ask you if you wan begin show yourself 🤲
You replied that the “lines on my frowning face confirms that I am a woman panel beater”.
I shook my head in disbelieve and opted to give you Bible verses that will help your ministry
Oya, nwanyị ọma bring pen and paper,
1. James 1 vs 19-20
2. Colossians 4 vs 6
3. Ecclesiastes 4 vs 7
4. Psalm 39 vs 1
5. James 4 vs 2
6. Proverbs 10 vs 17
7. James 3 vs 5
8. Proverbs 15 vs 28
9. Psalm 19 vs 14
10. Proverbs 31 vs 26
11. Proverbs 18 vs 21
12. Proverbs 17 vs 28
13. Proverbs 21 vs 23
I looked up and realised you didn’t bother to bring no pen and paper 😠
Ntipu mkpuu, ooh nne not only is your tongue ọkụ, you are also unteachable…😬
You frowned…and said we are all the same and hung up. 🤔😳
I just added rudeness to the list of what bomboy is dealing with 😤
Ms. Enebe Eje-ọrụ, from today henceforth, be assured I will be praying for you and hoping you don’t end up with an advice corner on social media, masking your pain and misleading our young and naive girls.
M bụrụkwa gị, nga ewelụ that my same ire, gụọ eze mụ ọnụ …ụwa bụ ofu mbịa.
Chukwu gozie gị ma nyekwa gị udo na obi oma-iko.
@ArinzeChukwu – 06/2018